The other day a friend of ours called. After I talked to him for a bit he made the comment, "I know you guys don't have an answering machine." We do have an answering machine so I asked why he thought that. It's because our machine is set to answer after six rings. He only ever lets a phone ring four or five times. That would explain why he never leaves messages.
Currently we are trying to sell a house. Phone numbers show up on our caller id without people leaving messages. Ray called one lady back and she said the machine never picked up. Most likely she only waited four or five rings.
Have people really become so impatient that they can't wait even 30 seconds for someone to answer the phone? I have our machine set at six rings so it gives me a few seconds longer to get to the phone since I am often delayed by babies. 30 seconds is hardly enough time to put the girls down and get to the other room to pick up the phone.
Maybe it's because my mom always told us to let the phone ring ten times (my parents don't have an answering machine). So I always do let it ring that long when I call them. It only takes one minute for the phone to ring ten times, making it about six seconds per ring. I don't find it to be unreasonable to expect people to wait 36 seconds to leave me a message. Maybe I'm not as impatient as I thought I was.